Ever Been Alone??

Have you ever been alone and felt lonely? If yes, how often is it? For me, many time that I’m alone but only a few times that I’m lonely. It is true that people live in society and live socially but it is not necessary to hang out with friends every second. People should give them self some personal and give some moment to friends. I think it is important to give time to yourself, be alone for a while and think about what you have done.

Nowadays, many people need someone to stay besides them. It is like they were addicted to friends or a person that is more than a friend. Some, when they were alone they will loose their self confidence and some even lock their self in a room. You can see that many people won’t have their meal alone and I mean every meal, breakfast, lunch, and dinner. Whenever they don’t have friends with them they may not eat at all and that is weird, we need food to survive not friends to survive.

Myself, I have been such a person before, a person that can’t be alone, a person that needed someone besides. When ever there is no one I always getting sick of everything. No friends no lunch, no friends no plaza, no friends I don’t do anything. Anyway, times passed and I’m changed. It’s about when I’m studying in high school that I start getting bored of arguing with friends about what to do. At last if I don’t agree with them I just go on my way and do what I want to do. This makes me spend more time with myself, I do many things alone and I still do many things with friends too. From this I can see how a person that is always alone and a person that never be alone live. Both character are good, they have fun in their own way, but for me I prefer being in the middle.

So if you never be alone then try it, for a few days, few hours, or few meals. Spend more time to yourself and let you know that you are able to be alone when there is no one besides you.